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	<title>Comments on: Why We Should Contradict&#160;Ourselves</title>
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		<title>By: by Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>by Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 17:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow -- thanks for deepening the discussion, Darcy. I think I&#039;m over my head now -- you can take charge if you like. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8212; thanks for deepening the discussion, Darcy. I think I&#8217;m over my head now &#8212; you can take charge if you like. <img src='http://www.soulshelter.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Darcy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darcy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 04:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The art of contradiction.  A very interesting topic.  One the one hand, is it possible to contradict yourself in speech and still hold true to your beliefs.  In other words, Mr. Sakai writes that what he has said at the beginning of the speech contradicts something he has said at the end.  Is it a true contradiction or a misunderstanding on the part of the listener or an intended paradox?  If it is a true contradiction, can Mr. Sakai truely believe both?  Aristotle would say no-his true belief lies in one or the other.

On the other hand, he also states the life is full of contradictions which is also true.  Dan Millman writes: &quot;Life has just three rules: Paradox, humour and change.&quot;  Have you ever had something happen to you that was the best thing and the worst thing that ever happened to you at the same time?  

Did I just contradict myself?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The art of contradiction.  A very interesting topic.  One the one hand, is it possible to contradict yourself in speech and still hold true to your beliefs.  In other words, Mr. Sakai writes that what he has said at the beginning of the speech contradicts something he has said at the end.  Is it a true contradiction or a misunderstanding on the part of the listener or an intended paradox?  If it is a true contradiction, can Mr. Sakai truely believe both?  Aristotle would say no-his true belief lies in one or the other.</p>
<p>On the other hand, he also states the life is full of contradictions which is also true.  Dan Millman writes: &#8220;Life has just three rules: Paradox, humour and change.&#8221;  Have you ever had something happen to you that was the best thing and the worst thing that ever happened to you at the same time?  </p>
<p>Did I just contradict myself?</p>
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		<title>By: by Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>by Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 18:39:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kid, thank you for a very adult comment.

We can&#039;t indeed conduct a thoughtful discussion or write a coherent article if we contradict ourselves in the next breath, or sentence. I&#039;m thinking longer-term, like … a day or so. :-) 

And while my point is to accept, rather than encourage, contradiction, in retrospect the final line in this piece seems a bit glib. I&#039;d like exposure to deeper thinking on the subject, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kid, thank you for a very adult comment.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t indeed conduct a thoughtful discussion or write a coherent article if we contradict ourselves in the next breath, or sentence. I&#8217;m thinking longer-term, like … a day or so. <img src='http://www.soulshelter.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>And while my point is to accept, rather than encourage, contradiction, in retrospect the final line in this piece seems a bit glib. I&#8217;d like exposure to deeper thinking on the subject, too.</p>
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		<title>By: kid</title>
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		<dc:creator>kid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 17:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a very interesting topic though I would say only lightly touched in the article.Trying to be consistent can really damage a person&#039;s life - attempting to be consistent with what we did or said in the past (because other people know about it) can make you blind to what you really feel, need, have opportunity to do now. On the other hand, do not the reasonable, intelligent poeople see through your contradictions, you change your mind, you change the context in which you say things, so it&#039;s all ok...

Still I am not comfortable with a contradiction as a good thing. Couple of examples: how can you lead a discussion, in particular if it is supposed to be ended by some practical conclusion, well, how can you write a meaningful article if it&#039;s full of contradictions. Or how can somebody rely on someone&#039;s else word. Or how about the situation when someone criticise what you do, not necessarily  with contempt but in a very firm way and they do the same thing as you did the next day praising it in the way as if you were a dilletante and never have heard about it. Can&#039;t they just say, well I it&#039;s better to contradict yourself rather than try to be consisntent, so what&#039;s the problem. 

I must say I&#039;d be most grateful if someone could sugests me a resource where this topic is discussed a little deeper :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a very interesting topic though I would say only lightly touched in the article.Trying to be consistent can really damage a person&#8217;s life &#8211; attempting to be consistent with what we did or said in the past (because other people know about it) can make you blind to what you really feel, need, have opportunity to do now. On the other hand, do not the reasonable, intelligent poeople see through your contradictions, you change your mind, you change the context in which you say things, so it&#8217;s all ok&#8230;</p>
<p>Still I am not comfortable with a contradiction as a good thing. Couple of examples: how can you lead a discussion, in particular if it is supposed to be ended by some practical conclusion, well, how can you write a meaningful article if it&#8217;s full of contradictions. Or how can somebody rely on someone&#8217;s else word. Or how about the situation when someone criticise what you do, not necessarily  with contempt but in a very firm way and they do the same thing as you did the next day praising it in the way as if you were a dilletante and never have heard about it. Can&#8217;t they just say, well I it&#8217;s better to contradict yourself rather than try to be consisntent, so what&#8217;s the problem. </p>
<p>I must say I&#8217;d be most grateful if someone could sugests me a resource where this topic is discussed a little deeper <img src='http://www.soulshelter.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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